To write in spite of any adversity faced to those who are doing good work, with the intent to prevent dilemma, not situate myself or anyone worse off, to offset any grievances in life personal or public, would defeat the purpose of creating a campaign that motivates people to try hard, work on themselves, live productive lives, and encourage people to be problem solvers. I think a lot of hope is lost when people are unecessarily defeated by the repercussions of the actions and words of others, although intolerable at time, we all come from different places, so the more privileges you have in life, the more is required of you, 12 steps, and all, each treatment is with the intent to make you whole, so that you don't have to stay sick, or live a life imagined to be worse than it is, all health related issues are personal, and a private matter we usually dont punish people for who they are or what they look like or how they seem, or what they communicate, it only matters after punishment. It's like to prevent you from questionning others, you lose your right and the respect for your opinion, it seems to be the limit to your top or potential in life, a viewpoint to mirror what bad decisions you were made to look like at one point in your life, whatever the secret is becomes the issue you face, not knowing.
While you may not anticipate changing, nothing is permanent until you convince yourself and others that you will not recover and get well, no extreme measures need to be taken to be anywhere in life that you dont belong, thats not the solution to end up worse off and then appear as though you're trying to fit in places you don't belong, and then we have the internet and blogging, it's your second opportunity to appear well and achieve in spite of real world standards for jobs and relationships, it's the one place you can be yourself and have control over what is known about you and how it is said, it's a great tool for people like me, who can easily be made to look bad, or a document tampered or easily made to look bad, it seems like if its easy to get people to think something of you, at what point should you start being concerned about what you look like, in what strech of the meaning of trust and honesty should anything kept private about you, alarm or be concerning to others, the point at which what live you have lived affects others, so then blogging would not be able to undo a previous issue, therefore to be able to blog, means that it's not an issue in my reality that I could not overcome and think that online I will make it further in life success wise or image wise. It is once you have to prove yourself, and when your image is tarnished, what becomes your fight, youreself to stay well or others, I think sometimes we are forced to not be concerned about ourselves because others are more important, and thats to make sure you dont become someone who doesn't see people as important. So if there is a big lesson to my image being tarnished or importance not recognized it will be about reactions warranted and whether I can identify the issue of being no one, or someone, and in what ways should I be hurt rationally, or in what ways is any hurt deemed schizophrenia, which would make any sickness occuring unjustified and automatically not the fault of anyone, is what a diagnosis teaches you, to keep to yourself, if thats the issue viewed, and to deprive you of love and wellness.
Many experience self-growth through blogging, there really is not expectation for popularity it's something we each work towards, and some are able to get participation, while some of us get left in the wood work, not fit for a close read, I guess it takes time to speak in public and overcome all the awkward phases of public speaking. Let yourself be sized up in life, it's better to not be so guarded and be yourself, then to run the risk of getting any issue wrong, it's usually by what you fear or say inappropriate is what becomes thought of you, what you have to say about others, although these are standards by which love and trust can be lost, sometimes what people enjoy figuring out is where you go in life, or why, and where you end up, no one really believes you to be limited, and you can't end up anywhere new in life, with anyone past having a problem with you, is the lesson on limits in life, it's like automatically being held back by you're inability to comprehend the issue with you, when it goes both ways, the same disatisfaction loss and questionning occurs on both fronts, those who have happiness love and admiration for one another, and grow less concerned for your suffering, sometimes thats the closure that people feel recognized in life, something a blogger can't achieve, romantically or professionally, my story is not far from the decisions made by others, and I wouldnt over focus on others who are doing well, and make anyone elses success about me at all, is wrong.
Be strong enough to appreciate the changes you go through as a person is what makes you a professional blogger. Just don't give up on your dreams and passions in life, over one post or photo. Like many new to blogging, it's easy to feel inhibited, insecure, and rejected even when you're trying, you're hardest. It's a steep learning curve to popularity online, so know yourself, and soon enough you will get know your audience who will start participating and sending likes before you know it, usually when you are too busy paying attention to other things in life, is when people come around, not necessarily when you are focused on them. A good story, book, or writing is one that opens people up to feeling better about right now and the past, which challenges most of us. It's never too late to improve.
I have found that through improvement and dedication to activities like fitness and AA meetings, this has built respect and a low-pressure environment from which to share. A lot of blogging has to do with keeping track of your progress and having something to show for your improvement. Just this year I was able to get my first paid jobs in law and was fortunate to be published in a magazine online, and was invited to audition for roles on allcasting, and experienced my first audition on Backstage. Seems like the better you feel about yourself, and the more you achieve in life, the higher the likelihood of you being picked for other roles in life. This was the key lesson I learned as a blogger, maybe I didn't get to monetize my work and be paid for it, but at least it situated me in a better place in life, to account for the years in which I was not able to get a paid job or misunderstood with disability.
Motivational Tips for Aspiring Bloggers and Website Designers
Manage Difficulty in Life Professionally, Hard to Say, But Worth the Length of Time to Explain
No matter what hurdles or mental health issues I've face in life, I have always sought to create a better outlook both for myself and for others reading along. No matter what stage in any recovery process you stand, there is always someone who has the experience to have gone through hell and back enough times, to reassure you that you are a good person, and don't have to go down those roads in life, suffer to the same extent. It was both a blessing and a curse to be diagnosed with schizophrenia or bipolar and took many years to adjust to the meds and carry on as normal of a life as I could make for myself. You'll want to help others once you've been through hardship, depression, or failure, enough times to know that it is possible to heal after all of that turmoil, and you can once again lead a normal life.
It's hard to understand how to get help, or to know what you need help with, and hopefully I am someone online, who can help others to identify whether or not they have a problem, or if someone has a problem with them, how to go about life, getting help and support, and continue on as they are. I think as a blogger you have a huge responsibility to carry on in a life that others approve of, not that everyone is a lifestyle blogger, but to lead a life similar to the life you speak of online. It's important to have a life that matches the quality of the life you have been able to create for yourself online. It wouldn’t make sense for it to be any different. Eventually we all hope to get to phases in life, when we can work with others, have our websites bought or developed by professionals in tech, and create opportunities for others, and that's not something you can envision for yourself, before it happens, it takes being offered opportunities in life, or contacted to know what you value seems like to others, who are also looking to build value.
Help with No Regrets and Own Your Mistakes in Life and Imperfections
Why Becoming a Blogger Builds Confidence as a Writer
If you ever feel compelled to help others, and seek to share insights through writing, that have helped you to become a stronger person, then it would be wise to demonstrate that care at some point in your life, and that is a writing that others can appreciate. In the haste to be known, sometimes we share on platforms that maybe don’t cater to what it means to be a writer, and how important it is to manage that connection to your work and to your audience.
To start, I was lucky to read a few good articles on how to be a blogger, featured on my #bloggintips page on mymollydoll.com my first website. I must admit, those thriving online and earning a living blogging, inspired me, in addition to all the perfect photos everyone was able to take. I decided to take on the challenge, to blog at least every day. To start blogging will be about what you have to offer to others, and the most well-known formats of blog posts occur in the form of articles in which you are either taught how to blog or learn lessons and introductions on what type of posts you should be creating for your audience.
All professional endeavors are about performing to a standard, and then you have to be you, and share your journey, what you’ve learned, and what appeared to be less promising moments as a writer, and not featured online. All writing works in the same way, either to support an impression that you care and with a returned expectation of quality, which is the beauty of blogging improving overtime so to be a self-improvement blogger is almost a given when it comes to blogging. If it’s something you believe in and are consistent with then you will make a good impression, and like all privileges in life the minute you don’t sound like yourself all respect is lost, there is really no reading into the unnecessary to comprehend a person who is not in tune with what is right even if about themselves and focused too much on negatives.
Common challenges faced are becoming known, well regarded, sticking to an acceptable standard in life, and not fall below their own means or imperfections. So, expect that there will be challenges along your way. A good book doesn’t happen in one swoop it’s a collection of your good days compiled into a finished composition, upon focusing on assembling a group or written works that finally make a book, that’s the benefit of a book, it shows dedication, but the learning doesn’t stop there. After becoming known it will also be important to take into account what everyone else thinks and feels and make sure that you don’t mention anything that you have not figured out yet in life, or figured out the wrong way, focus on the positives in life.
What most people will take away from your book are your honest opinions, trusted depending on the quality of professional presentation of your work. If you haven’t noticed, things have improved so much, that previous efforts seem like less effort or work was put into the accomplishment. I assure you to start with nothing and to create something, doesn’t look as stupid as simple as it looks to be made. It's hard to fill the pages of a book, and to create solution for what is not said, the challenge of most writers, and people becoming known for their strength, not a plan or route for destruction or reminder of it, and this you learn the hard way, that although you may not say what you stand for or are connected to in life, everything about you gets related. So, either start getting used to the treatment, or take meds, and not think anything too much of it.
The best way to prevent a bad idea from occurring is usually not to mention, not unless to not talk about leaves an assumption for allowing things to happen, and on what basis, always be honest about your condition and your history. So long as you do your best to improve, people will be more forgiving of less confident moments, or when things look off. Eventually you will figure out how to sound no matter what happens, even if made to apologize about harder times in life, will not make sense, once you wind up sounding better in the long run. Who can explain mental health issues anyways? It's never easy to explain lesser moments in life, before arriving to a better condition mental health wise. The less you expect the more you enable others to be left feeling strong too motivated, not one held back in life to the others place in life. That’s the gift of knowledge, it’s something recorded upon study, and is something worth learning. Then there are your 12 steps of lesser moments in life, be sure to always apologize and make clear that it was never your intent in life to struggle or to drink or get in trouble, and that it was also not destined for you to either help all or fail to meet the mark, on certain issues. When everyone gets to be human, is an important moment in time, usually occurring when our defenses are down, and we can accept and feel good about where we each are in life, a peaceful assembly.
Built a blog on Weebly, and Alexa Ranked.
Built a blog on Wordpress, and Ahrefs Ranked.
Graduated from Law School with an MSL (LLM).
Applied and hired for a job in Civil Litigation as a Paralegal.
Working on completing the editting for two books to publish this year.
Got Wordpress Likes, and likes across social media through Blogpros distribution.
Worked jobs based on my interests, with the intent for success to follow.
Maintained communications with friends, even after becoming a blogger.
Navigating through all sensitive issues, calling Trevor Project Hotline.
Attended AA meetings, IOP programs, and hospitalizations to prevent suicide and self-harm.
Maintain a clean lifestyle, in bed by 9pm, active used to run everyday in Santa Monica.
Got comforatble talking to the Police, overcame the intimidation of speaking in public.
Acclimated to my presence in life, and degree to which Im known, and amicable to noise & others.
Got used to the temperment of everyone after COVID, patient throughout the crisis, writing.
Lead a lifestyle that matches the quality of fashion already made an example of female bloggers.
Took on the challenge of interviewing and applying to a web development program and took a course in Wordpress before trying to build a new website on my own on a new platform.
Working toward a more professional appearance, able to solve discomforts for the majority of the time I was faced with controversy, and made things better by speaking in public recording and writing.
I created quality content not to waste the time of others, to care admist my challenges, never making my life more difficult than necessary, and have been a positive influence for acceptance in general.
Careful not to step on issues or cross words with people over status, alwasy with respect informed who I identified as remotely related, would send updates politely notify them of what Im doing.
Not cause a scene in the face of controversy, dilemma, or lawsuit, have done my best to work hard on improving myself, not question the issue of punishment, but avoid that circumstance all together.
Aware of my health and mental health being considered as a cause for lawsuit, is not the position that I plan to end up in in life, not based on prior hospitalizations, nothing can explain for sickness.
Able to function as an adult in the community, get along with others, approachable, and not carrying any heavy weight around with me politically that would interfere the good judgment of others.
Made it my goal to prove that I am smart, and with no regrets have preached for acceptnace for all conditions, despite infrequently suffering in life, usually driven positive, not bothered by others.
Have submitted books and subjects proposed of interest to Nobel and to Pultizer Prize, made a call.
Have corresponded with Brady throughout the years, and more recently in spite of trouble have been replied to, they have always known of my mental health struggles and desire to help, and should I decide to create any campaign specific to their needs especially #zeroattention, that would have to be a project to be reviewed by them and approved of, so something to think about in the future. I have received calls from Team Enough, they are not far from my mind, in terms of who to not affect.
I have joined memberships in the arts considering all the performing I am doing online and in private by video, that it only made sense, that because of my personal interest in mainatining private records of everything, shows that I am dedicated to the cause of being easy for viewing, not alarming.
I have explored my options as an adult intellectually, socially, and romantically, and have made major decisions, and shared on major issues, that I hope can fix the unnecessary hurt and ridicule, had I not cared and been sensitive to the issues, I would not have marched in pride week in superdry sweatshirt in rainbow bought at Macys last minute and blue sweatpants, as a pen pal to Trump Support, I has one pen pal before my job in film and we discontinued talking because of work.
I don't have a private life besides messenger and my iphone, and have discontinued writing in private, due to time constraints without leisure time to think about myself and what I need to do, seems like the focus is not on you, when it's time to focus on others, and thats not always a bad thing, or idea.
I waited many years to date again, nothing I do is a split decision, nothing I achieve is a last resort, and everything I write is after careful thought, which is why I can keep going, I dont max out trying to get places mentally or spiritually, I'm able to arrive to postions of peace, without being fought or sided against, it's not my experince for doors to close on me in life, it is my experince to leave doors open.
I have lived a patient life alone, by choice, and dicontinued socializing due to law school, which is not my personality, always most popular at every school, so that's not my demeanor anti-social, I am very comfortable around others, in terms of talking, only recently with diagnosis, facing disability.
Self-harm is one of the most tragic aspects of my story, and athough you may endure mental illness, you never expect for it to happen again, it will be the things that you can't explain you'll be glad you survivied, and to be short on subjects of when you fell ill, is simply the right things to do, not get hurt.
My current strategy for maintaining the peace is to (1) not argue backwards or else I get hurt and lose stamina and my good health (2) accept diagnosis no matter how painful it's been mentally to accept and no matter what things look like or what's said about it online (3) accept critcism and not be hurt or made to think that Im being treated for story or to appear worse than I am (4) find my confidence again, and repair myself, and not let any damage be a permanent suffering I should endure (5) age gracefully and live life, and handle all changes in stride (6) not give up over any loss, and even if empathy hurts, it's better to prevent a feeling from occuring, sometimes you have to endure pain in life, for people to know whether you have returned from the worst of things or floating high on something that others dont have access to, like people, education, or money, I think Im limited based on prior addictions, and like all people if you live a good life you appear privileged otherwise if you are not made to shine, and suffer reputationally by any attitude, is this what you deserve, pain, love etc.
I keep an open dialogue with my audience, I really rose to the occasion, and used to sing and record and found a platform that records accurately, to share on my blog, managed to take good photos, and never questioned my image or appearance on Apple, I never second guessed the reasons why I dont appear well by Apple lens, or overthink for what reasons was my image tarnished, I never came to believe that what I looked like was because of what anyone thought, and stil dont think thats why.
I represent a person who has been through a lot, and never complains, and if it's challenging and threatening, I face those threats head on and do my best to minimize for crime around me, througb performing of value online, things that create for peace, are the things that dont disturb, dont disappint, remind people of feelings that are good and welcomed, not disrupt that meaning of time.
After submission of my work to Feedspot.com, I was ranked in public among other popular bloggers in the genres of self-improvement and personal development. A self-help blogger with years’ experience overcoming and identifying mental health issues and getting help when it was needed. Had I not experienced bipolar due to drinking, or voices & self-harm due to bullying and schizophrenia, I would have never self-harmed or ever become suicidal in the process of figuring out what was wrong with me, that's how some of us learn and improve, by getting stronger, and taking meds. Sometimes you're only option is to be treated in a hospital for things not going right for you mentally or medically. It takes time to have confidence in yourself and to know when to get help, and it won't always be obvious when a good time to get help is. So, manage yourself well, and for everything else you fear in life, have faith that you can get strong again, get A's in law school again, and graduate with at least some degree.
Please vote for mymollydoll.com (lesliefischman.wpcomstaging.com) for Best Personal Development Blog to honor my following, my supporters, and everyone who has contributed to causes supporting the peace and well-being of all those who have suffered from violence, addiction, self-harm, and other related mental health issues. -I hope to write a book one day, one step at a time.
